Dhammapada Reflections Verses 227-8

Verses 227-8

          Since ancient times it has been the case
that those who speak too much are criticised,
          as are those who speak too little
          and those who don't speak at all.
          Everyone in this world is criticised.
          There never was, nor will there be,
          nor is there now,
anybody who is only blamed or wholly praised.
Reflection

Whatever we do in this life, whatever we say (or
don't say), we cannot avoid being criticised. The
Buddha was blamed and criticised just like everyone
else. To seek only praise and fear blame is fruitless.
The only blame with which we really need to be 
concerned is that which is offered by the wise. If
someone who lives impeccably criticises us, it is 
appropriate to heed what they say. But if we find 
that any criticism from anybody hurts us, then we
need to look deeper. Reflect that in blaming, 
people send out the pain that they don't have the 
ability to contain;  they express their hurt outwardly
by finding fault with others. When we have the 
mindfulness and capacity to receive ourselves fully,
we are not inclined to blame anyone - ourselves or 
others.
Ajahn Munindo