Someone who is angry is someone who doesn't know how to handle their suffering. They are the first victim of their suffering, and you are actually the second victim. Once we can see this, compassion is born in our heart and anger evaporates. We don't want to punish them any more, but instead we want to say something or do something to help them suffer less.
Scientists made a bizarre discovery when they took a CT scan of
an ancient Buddha statue from China. Inside was a mummy sitting
in the same lotus position. Further investigation revealed that the
organs had been removed and replaced by scraps of paper with
Chinese writing on them. The Buddha statue, dating back to 1100
CE, belongs to the Drents Museum in the Netherlands and is
currently on loan to a museum in Budapest.